Pretend you’re good at it

On its face, “Pretend you’re good at it” is a lot like “Fake it til you make it,” but actually, it’s vastly superior. Here’s why: “Fake it til you make it” assumes that you will, at some point, “make it.” The idea that I might “make it” at some point is too much pressure. When … Read more

We Do What We Know Is Bad for Us, Why?

This post looks at why we do the bad things we do such as smoking and eating poorly. We know these things don’t serve us and yet we continue to do them. As well as exploring why we do these things, the article explores 3 ways to stop the bad things once and for all. … Read more