20 things you don’t owe anyone

“Never explain – your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway.”

I am guilty of over-explaining.

I’m the person that will try to justify something or explain something far more than is required.

I do this (used to do this) from a sense of “owing” those around me. I felt I owed them the explanation, the apology, the justification – as though I was forever seeking permission and approval.

I can’t tell you when it started, or why (although I suspect low self confidence) but I can tell you that this chapter of my life is well and truly over.

Perhaps you’re the same? Perhaps you over apologise or over explain in a similar attempt to gain approval or permission?

In this fascinating article from the Power of Positivity, they explore 20 things you don’t owe anyone- and it’s not just apologies and excuses.

The most important thing you don’t owe anyone?

You don’t owe anyone a yes when you want to say no.

Read the full article here.

 

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